As I gather around the table this Thanksgiving, I find myself reflecting on the past year and the many things I am grateful for. This year marks the second Thanksgiving without my mother and while her absence is profoundly felt, I am reminded of the love and joy she brought into my life. It’s been over a year since she passed and though the pain of losing her lingers, I strive to focus on the beauty that life continues to offer.
This Thanksgiving was different from any I’ve experienced before. For the first time, I didn’t cook a single dish. Instead, I spent the early afternoon at a restaurant with my family, sharing laughter and stories over a delicious meal prepared by strangers. It felt strange not to be in the kitchen, but I realized that I didn’t have the desire to cook this year. Perhaps it was a small act of self-care, allowing myself to embrace the moment without the weight of preparation.
Despite the challenges of the past year, I am thankful for the good things that God brings into my life. I cherish the time spent with family, the warmth of their presence, and the memories we create together. Each moment is a reminder that life, even in its most difficult times, is still beautiful. As I look ahead, I hold onto the hope that next year may feel a little brighter. Healing takes time, and I know that with each passing day, I am moving forward. I am grateful for the support of my loved ones and the strength I find in their company.
I have a lot on my mind today, particularly the victims of the Idaho massacre that occurred on November 13th in Moscow. I knew Madison Mogen personally; we met at the Victoria’s Secret store in Boise Town Square Mall, where she complimented my hair and sunglasses. We started talking in the store and instantly became friends. Although I don’t use Facebook that much anymore, I kept in touch with her there. My heart aches for Madison, her family, and the other victims of this tragedy. The idea she was stabbed to death makes me sick and I hope the man who did this gets caught and goes to prison.
This Thanksgiving, I encourage everyone to take a moment to reflect on what you are thankful for, no matter how small. Life is a tapestry of experiences and even in our grief, there is beauty to be found. Here’s to cherishing the memories, embracing the present, and looking forward to the future.
Happy Thanksgiving 2022!
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