Today, I am filled with sorrow as I mourn the loss of my dear friend, Ryan Hair, who passed away at just 46 years old. His absence leaves a profound emptiness that is difficult to bear. One I’m still trying to make sense of.
I first met Ryan in 2011 at the Dallas Airport while I was there to audition for X Factor USA. The weather was tumultuous, with heavy rain forcing our plane to make an emergency landing. We found ourselves stranded at the airport for hours and in that unexpected circumstance, a friendship began. I vividly recall singing for him during our wait. Ryan always encouraged me and believed in my talent. Ryan confidently predicted I would advance to the next round of auditions and he was right. He was a source of inspiration and extremely encouraging. For years, he complimented me and my gift urging me to push forward.
Over the years, our friendship grew, primarily through social media. We exchanged numbers the day I met him at the airport and kept in touch on Facebook, Pinterest, and Twitter. Ryan had a special gift for poetry, often sharing beautiful verses on my Facebook wall. He was a genuinely kind soul, always spreading positivity and always encouraged others to be the best version of themselves.
The news of his passing has left me in shock. I am uncertain about the circumstances of his death. I don’t know if it was related to Covid or complications from diabetes, a condition that had significantly affected his life. I remember him sharing the struggles he faced, including having to have his foot amputated due to a neglected blister. Despite these challenges, Ryan remained a beacon of light, never allowing negativity to cloud his spirit. He was selfless and always willing to help others.
Originally from Denver, I can only imagine the heartbreak his family is experiencing right now. He has a daughter named Abby who has to grow up without her father. Just devastating. Reflecting on our friendship reminds me of life’s fragility and the importance of cherishing every moment. Today, I truly understand the value of time more than I ever have.
My heart aches with grief and I find it hard to articulate my sorrow. Ryan was an extraordinary person, full of love and kindness, and he will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Ryan and his family during this incredibly difficult time. Rest in peace, my friend. You will always be remembered.
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