People are really fascinating and when I think of everyone being as unique as their personality, I think without some jealousy and hatred, the world would be extremely boring.
So, how do you cope with a jealous bully? You simply don't think of them and if you do, you stop thinking about them. How can you stop thinking about them? It's simple. You come up with ideas on how to better your own future, you look at your present life, and you set both short-term and long-term goals for yourself. Then, you look back at what you have accomplished.
Another great way to cope with a jealous bully is to remind yourself that they are talking about you. When I think of my haters, I think that I am doing something right because without haters, I know I am not doing my job correctly. Remind yourself that with virtually no effort whatsoever, you are making them go crazy over you.
Think of your jealous bully as a stalker. As they attempt to devalue you and spread lies, just remember that you are making no effort for them to do that. Think of them as a rabid fan, a fan that is negative and manifested with the thought of you, looking for attention based off of your name and image. After all, lovers make a person rich, but haters make a person famous.
If you feel entitled to exercise the first amendment, it is important to recognize that giving them attention gives them ammo which is why if you do decide to do this, you want to blog only once, twice, three times about the person/people bullying you and then leave it at that. Remember your jealous bully does not need your attention more than once, let alone at all.
You can choose to think about it, but then you should realize that when you do, you aren't going nowhere with them because no matter what you say or what you do, they are still going to continue. You can't please the world, as not everyone will love you, but if you love yourself you will never even give your jealous bully a second thought.
So, how do you cope with a jealous bully? You simply don't think of them and if you do, you stop thinking about them. How can you stop thinking about them? It's simple. You come up with ideas on how to better your own future, you look at your present life, and you set both short-term and long-term goals for yourself. Then, you look back at what you have accomplished.
Another great way to cope with a jealous bully is to remind yourself that they are talking about you. When I think of my haters, I think that I am doing something right because without haters, I know I am not doing my job correctly. Remind yourself that with virtually no effort whatsoever, you are making them go crazy over you.
Think of your jealous bully as a stalker. As they attempt to devalue you and spread lies, just remember that you are making no effort for them to do that. Think of them as a rabid fan, a fan that is negative and manifested with the thought of you, looking for attention based off of your name and image. After all, lovers make a person rich, but haters make a person famous.
If you feel entitled to exercise the first amendment, it is important to recognize that giving them attention gives them ammo which is why if you do decide to do this, you want to blog only once, twice, three times about the person/people bullying you and then leave it at that. Remember your jealous bully does not need your attention more than once, let alone at all.
You can choose to think about it, but then you should realize that when you do, you aren't going nowhere with them because no matter what you say or what you do, they are still going to continue. You can't please the world, as not everyone will love you, but if you love yourself you will never even give your jealous bully a second thought.
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